The Try Guys Try ‘Fifty Shades’ Style BDSM


– One quick thing, though. Do I have your consent to play with you? (grunts) – Yes. – And do you know what your safe word is? – Mercy. – Josh Groban. – John Stamos. – Denzel! – Why, does that hurt? – It doesn’t hurt, I just don’t like it. – We haven’t even gotten
to the actual contact. (electronic dance music) – I don’t know anything about BDSM, except I assume it’s just a
lot of hitting each other? – I always skip past it on Pornhub, which I don’t go to often, but– – Wait wait wait, hold up! – I picture it as like a guy with a zipper that goes over his face. – Yeah, I associate it
with weird porn stuff. – I see you squeezin’
them cheeks together! (grunts) – The whole thing with BDSM
is that it’s about consent. The agreement that two people have made that their both enjoying and
getting the most pleasure out of the experience. (screaming) – This is your job. – Yes.
– This is your profession. – It is. – What does BDSM stand for? – Well, BDSM is bondage, discipline, – Shut up! – submission, domination,
and sadomasochism. – Aww, fuck. (laughs) – Which one are you? (laughs) – I guess we’re gonna find out. – We’re gonna find out really fast, but I’m supposed to be the dom today. – Okay. – So, you’re gonna have to kind of follow. Do you have bad knees or
any physical problems? – Not yet. What are misconceptions
you think people have about BDSM in general? – My assumption is that it’s
usually during sex, right? – So the line we don’t cross
with professional BDSM is we don’t have sex. – What about “Fifty Shades of Grey”? – I read the first book
of “Fifty Shades of Grey”. Scandalized! – Well, I read it with my wife. – But it’s very popular. – So many people in America got turned on by the same gross smut. – Do you like it? Is it accurate? – What I love is that it’s brought the fetish/BDSM/kink community
up close and personal to the what we call “vanilla” general public. – And we are going to
read excerpts from it. – “I turn, and he’s
regarding me intently.” – “He reaches between my legs
and pulls on the blue string.” What? “And gently takes my tampon out “and tosses it into the nearby toilet.” Holy fuck! – In a professional setting,
the limits of BDSM would be no exchange of bodily fluids, no penetration, no sex. – “As he makes his way
around me, he flicks again, “this time hitting my nipple. “I throw my head back as
my nerve endings sing.” – “‘Okay, and what do I get out of this?’ “He shrugs and looks almost apologetic. “‘Me.'” – BDSM is not just about pain. It actually can be very connected
and emotional and freeing. – “‘Oh, geez!’ I can feel myself quicken.” – “‘That’s right, baby!'” – “he rasps as he grinds into me.” (grunts) – In your personal life,
if you’re practicing BDSM, – Sure.
– If it’s consensual with you and your partner, anything goes. – I’m ready to be dominated in
a way that is both respectful but also very dominate-y. – [Allison] “‘The feathery
thing has me intrigued.’ “I touch it, hesitantly.'” – The feather can be nice
for the sensation play to get the skin all activated. – Here we go!
(Gabby screams) Right in the pits!
– Okay, hold on! – Yeah.
– How’s that? – Feels good. – Ulch ulch ulch… – This feels weird. – [Zach] What does the blindfolding add? – Well, if you’re blindfolded,
you don’t know what’s coming. – So tight. I can’t see anything. – I’m ready to sleep on an airplane. – Don’t talk! – I don’t even need to
see you to dominate you. Bam! – And it heightens your sensitivity. You’re waiting for something to happen, and when it happens, it’s
that much more intense. (screams)
(laughs) – It’s very freeing to just let go, let someone else take over. Handcuffs can do that for you. – Here we go! You’re in trouble. – It’s like a traffic stop. (rips Velcro)
– Huh? What? – This isn’t fun, it just seems like work. – You definitely know you’re
in the submissive role. You definitely know that
someone else is in charge. (flogger cracks)
– Oh, god. – Now what? Now what? – “It’s suede and like a
small cat o’ nine tails “but bushier. “It’s called a flogger.” (flogger cracks)
– Ah! (flogger cracks)
– Ow! (laughing) Eugene! – Quinta, I don’t think
you understand the concept! – Give me a boner with pain, Ned! (flogger crack)
– Oh, f– – The flogging’s great
if it’s not on the tummy. (flogger cracks)
– Ow! (flogger cracks)
– Oh! – “Swear to me!” – I think in the book it was on the tummy, which doesn’t feel very good. (flogger cracking)
– Oh, god! God! – Put your butt up, bitch! (flogger cracks)
Bam! – I guess it’s okay. (flogger cracking)
– God, Ned! – That’s my knee! – What? That’s a sexy place! (flogger cracking)
– Move to another area! God! (flogger cracks) – It’s not terrible. – I kinda like it. – Can I do it harder? – Yeah. – Do you want it harder? – Eugene.
– I’m sorry. (laughs) – I’m not turned on. I’m not aroused. – [Zach] What is the purpose of this? – A lot of people love the feeling of rope being pulled across their skin. – I’m gonna tie your wrist. – Yeah! Tie it! – Shh!
– Tighter! – So I’m getting spanked now.
– Mmm-hmm. – Is there a difference in paddle types? – Well, yes. When you’re learning to spank someone, or you’re going to be
spanked for the first time, you wanna go with an over
the knee hand spanking. – Are you ready? – Yes!
– Do you feel safe? – I feel safe.
– You shouldn’t! – Shu-pow!
– Spank it. – Whap!
– Harder. – Whap!
– Harder. – Uh-oh, pancakes on your butt. – Oh no– Ow!
– Ooh! – Okay. – Ahh! – Oh my gosh!
– Ahh! – Eugene!
– Ahh! – Are you okay?
– Oh. – Ah!
– Yeah! – The worst paddle, in
my opinion, is wood. – Ohhh! – “He hits me again across the buttocks.” – Oh, thank you, Mistress,
may I have another? I don’t think I’ll return
to all of these things. Ohh! But in a nice, safe setting, I could see myself returning to a few. – Safe, sane, and consensual;
that’s what it’s all about. Was it safe today? – Yes.
– Was it sane? – (laughs) Mostly. (violet wand buzzes) – Ah! – Ah! Ee-ii-hii! – I did like the teasing aspect. That was when it got weird,
’cause it got a little sexual. – [Keith] It got a little bit sexy. – Ah! It was just a lot of really great… – Hey! Shut it! Shut your mouth! Don’t tell me what to do! – Mmm! Mmm! Mmm. I don’t think that you like to be sub… – Eugene! – The whole point is for you
not to know when it’s coming. – Well, I don’t get this. – We learned that Allison hits much harder than I anticipated. Oww! Okay, okay! – I’m strong. – I had fun. It was uncomfortable at times, and a little frightening, but… – Was it consensual? – It was.
– Right. Exactly, so that’s what it’s all about. – [in unison] Thank you,
Mistress, may I have another? (floggers cracking)
(men exclaiming) – [director] Cut, cut, cut there! – Wait, can I say I’m kinky now? – Yeah! – Hey, guys, I’m kinky! (Mistress Hudsy laugh) Hey, guys, I’m kinky. Thanks for watching.

100 thoughts on “The Try Guys Try ‘Fifty Shades’ Style BDSM

  1. When she said it can be "freeing", that is so true. I was in a long term relationship with a partner who was emotionally abusive, and it was making its way towards physical abuse. One of his favorite "games" was to pretend to stab me with a kitchen knife. When I left the relationship, I still hadn't processed that I was really in danger, but there was a lingering aversion to the kitchen. My friends and family all pointed out that I never cooked anymore, and I love to cook. My next partner was almost a year later, and the level of trust between us was very high very quickly. I knew about a local BDSM club with a 101 night, and that's where I took us on the first date. One of the first stations we went to was the knife play demonstration. He knew that my last partner was a real piece of work, but that's where I told him the pretend stabbing story. I brushed it off with a joke that I was going extreme on the coping mechanisms, but the new guy has a knife collection, he keeps a large, shiny, very sharp buck knife in his bedframe, and one of our favorite things became knife play, both of us giving and receiving. To have that avenue to reacquaint myself with knives in such a safe but intense and intimate way was invaluable. I can't say I'm completely past the hurt my ex did, maybe not even mostly past it, and I'm sure I won't jump to knife play so quickly with future partners, but I'm cooking again, and I know what it feels like to trust and be trusted and be rewarded. Fifty Shades is an appalling disaster, but I may have gone years or even decades longer before finding BDSM if it wasn't for the conversation it started. So, thanks BDSM, and – begrudgingly – thanks Fifty Shades.

  2. it took me this long for youtube to say that i was old enough to watch this damn video. so here i am.

  3. I wonder if now with their new channel Kieth and Ned ever look back at when Ned just beat the living heck out of Kieth 🤣

  4. When you loose one or more of your senses then the others are enhanced, so blind folding enhances the other senses

  5. IS IT ONLY ME THAT SHIPS ZACH AND THE RED HAIRED LADY????

    also……….I LOVE NEDKEITH SHIP😂😂😂

  6. i like the smacking if a guy bent my over his lap teased my butt a bit with the padle smacked while my hand were tied it be hot

  7. 0:53
    Zach: "What does BDSM stand for?"

    Judy: "Well BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline…..

    Keith: "SHUT UP!!!" 😂😂😂

  8. The video didn't even start and I already feel like people are scared
    LETS PUT SOME CHEEKS TOGETHER MEN.
    ignore that please…..

  9. I’m so glad someone from a popular public platform such as Buzzfeed suggested this video. People hate what they don’t understand and this brings it one step closer to those of us into BDSM and more of its subset kink communities being able to be open on a wider scale and be more accepted.

    Not trying to minimize anyone else’s other struggles at all. My only point is that in more conservative regions saying your kinky is still a shameful thing. I hate feeling split between something that brings me joy and pleasure versus being the “good girl” I was raised to be if that makes any sense.

  10. The Ned and Keith flogging is always hilarious. Absolutely kills me everytime. 😂😂😂😂☠☠☠☠☠ I couldn't breathe and my stomach started to hurt.

  11. I hate that they've cut out the part where she says what she hates about FSOG, there's only one mention of the "hitting the tummy" part. But most of FSOG is crap since it doesn't display a healthy BDSM relationship
    Also, Allison kinda reminds me of Dakota Johnson

  12. Eugene is in a level of sexiness a mere mortal like me aspire to go. He was the only one sexually comfortable enough to not make this video even more uncomfortable

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